Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) shouting back
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 4.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 5.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 8.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
- 10.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 11.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 13.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 14.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 17.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 18.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) bringing up old fights (c) listening without blame (d) walking off in anger
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 24.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 26.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or brainstorm solutions? (a) calm down (b) brainstorm solutions
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or listen to both sides? (a) take a deep breath (b) listen to both sides
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or find options? (a) take a deep breath (b) find options
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 40.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) taking sides at once
Answer key
- using a calm voice
- apologising sincerely
- step 4
- help them calm down
- True
- step 1
- cool off for a minute
- True
- taking sides at once
- False
- with an agreed plan
- step 2
- to understand fully
- finding a middle way
- list possible fixes
- name-calling
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- saying “I feel…”
- helps solve it
- listening without blame
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- combine the best parts
- helps solve it
- True
- calm down
- shouting back
- calm down
- list possible fixes
- step 3
- calm down
- saying “I feel…”
- focusing on the problem
- using a calm voice
- take a deep breath
- step 2
- take a deep breath
- hear each side fully
- listening without blame
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