Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 2.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 5.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) name-calling
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 7.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) focusing on the problem (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 11.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 15.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 19.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 26.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 27.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) the leader picks alone
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to understand fully
- 31.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 32.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 33.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 36.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) name-calling (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- False
- True
- helps solve it
- listen to both sides
- apologising sincerely
- take a deep breath
- True
- focusing on the problem
- listen to both sides
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- apologising sincerely
- step 3
- list possible fixes
- False
- step 1
- using a calm voice
- listen to both sides
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- finding a middle way
- focusing on the problem
- walking off in anger
- step 4
- calm down
- True
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- to understand fully
- shouting back
- False
- False
- step 2
- find options
- True
- find options
- finding a middle way
- name-calling
- bringing up old fights
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