Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 2.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or cool off for a minute? (a) choose a fix together (b) cool off for a minute
- 11.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) apologising sincerely (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 16.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a winner and loser (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a fight
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 18.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) pick a winner fast (c) ignore them (d) help them calm down
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
- 27.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 28.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 29.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 32.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or let each person speak? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) let each person speak
- 34.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 36.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or choose a fix together? (a) listen to both sides (b) choose a fix together
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) finding a middle way
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
Answer key
- step 3
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- makes it worse
- step 4
- walking off in anger
- step 4
- let each person speak
- step 2
- listen to both sides
- cool off for a minute
- finding a middle way
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- name-calling
- step 4
- with an agreed plan
- step 1
- help them calm down
- taking sides at once
- saying “I feel…”
- step 2
- listen to both sides
- helps solve it
- step 3
- shouting back
- bringing up old fights
- True
- True
- False
- helps solve it
- step 1
- False
- let each person speak
- False
- find options
- walking off in anger
- listen to both sides
- spreading gossip
- helps solve it
- shouting back
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