Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a winner and loser (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) focusing on the problem (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) apologising sincerely (d) finding a middle way
- 7.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) bringing up old fights
- 8.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 9.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 10.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 11.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 13.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to waste time
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or brainstorm solutions? (a) cool off for a minute (b) brainstorm solutions
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 17.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 20.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 24.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 25.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 27.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or hear each side fully? (a) cool off for a minute (b) hear each side fully
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or shake hands on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) shake hands on a plan
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 36.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or list possible fixes? (a) hear each side fully (b) list possible fixes
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 40.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
Answer key
- with an agreed plan
- name-calling
- makes it worse
- step 2
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- listening without blame
- False
- True
- True
- True
- step 4
- to understand fully
- cool off for a minute
- let each person speak
- step 3
- False
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- walking off in anger
- bringing up old fights
- apologising sincerely
- step 2
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 1
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- brainstorm solutions
- shouting back
- False
- hear each side fully
- step 1
- name-calling
- combine the best parts
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