Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) bringing up old fights
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or let each person speak? (a) take a deep breath (b) let each person speak
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 11.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 13.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 14.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 20.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 23.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 26.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 27.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) pick a winner fast
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 33.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or take a deep breath? (a) list possible fixes (b) take a deep breath
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or calm down? (a) let each person speak (b) calm down
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 38.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or cool off for a minute? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) cool off for a minute
Answer key
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- listening without blame
- spreading gossip
- take a deep breath
- step 2
- step 4
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- step 1
- True
- step 4
- saying “I feel…”
- apologising sincerely
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
- helps solve it
- find options
- True
- name-calling
- step 2
- calm down
- list possible fixes
- walking off in anger
- combine the best parts
- help them calm down
- focusing on the problem
- brainstorm solutions
- find options
- step 1
- makes it worse
- True
- take a deep breath
- calm down
- list possible fixes
- calm down
- False
- False
- cool off for a minute
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