Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 2.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 3.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 4.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 7.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “I don’t care.”
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 9.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) ignore them
- 10.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 13.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with a winner and loser
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or let each person speak? (a) choose a fix together (b) let each person speak
- 16.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to understand fully (c) to find who to blame (d) to pick a winner
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or choose a fix together? (a) calm down (b) choose a fix together
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or hear each side fully? (a) calm down (b) hear each side fully
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 21.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) the leader picks alone (d) combine the best parts
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) shouting back (c) saying “I feel…” (d) finding a middle way
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) listening without blame
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) taking sides at once (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 34.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) spreading gossip
- 37.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) apologising sincerely
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- saying “I feel…”
- True
- False
- False
- finding a middle way
- find options
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 4
- help them calm down
- True
- taking sides at once
- listen to both sides
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- let each person speak
- to understand fully
- calm down
- spreading gossip
- calm down
- listening without blame
- combine the best parts
- step 1
- step 1
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- step 4
- shouting back
- bringing up old fights
- walking off in anger
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- shouting back
- taking sides at once
- True
- let each person speak
- spreading gossip
- True
- focusing on the problem
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
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