Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or choose a fix together? (a) hear each side fully (b) choose a fix together
- 3.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 4.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 5.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) listening without blame
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 8.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 10.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) finding a middle way
- 13.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 14.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or listen to both sides? (a) choose a fix together (b) listen to both sides
- 16.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a winner and loser (c) with silence (d) with a fight
- 17.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 18.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 19.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 22.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 30.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) apologising sincerely
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 33.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) walking off in anger (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 34.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 35.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) finding a middle way
- 37.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 38.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) bringing up old fights
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) spreading gossip
Answer key
- taking sides at once
- hear each side fully
- combine the best parts
- False
- to understand fully
- spreading gossip
- listen to both sides
- True
- name-calling
- True
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- listening without blame
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- listen to both sides
- with an agreed plan
- True
- False
- False
- finding a middle way
- brainstorm solutions
- False
- makes it worse
- step 3
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- True
- False
- bringing up old fights
- step 2
- walking off in anger
- help them calm down
- False
- shouting back
- makes it worse
- apologising sincerely
- step 4
- saying “I feel…”
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