Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or hear each side fully? (a) choose a fix together (b) hear each side fully
- 4.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 5.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 10.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 11.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 12.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 15.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with an agreed plan (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with a winner and loser
- 16.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) saying “I feel…”
- 19.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 21.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “I don’t care.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 22.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 24.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 25.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or calm down? (a) agree on a plan (b) calm down
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 32.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 33.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 36.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 39.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 40.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- spreading gossip
- True
- step 4
- step 1
- makes it worse
- let each person speak
- saying “I feel…”
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- with an agreed plan
- combine the best parts
- listening without blame
- taking sides at once
- True
- step 4
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- focusing on the problem
- shouting back
- False
- True
- calm down
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- find options
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- False
- True
- hear each side fully
- step 3
- True
- step 1
- brainstorm solutions
- True
- True
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