Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or calm down? (a) choose a fix together (b) calm down
- 2.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) scrap the project (d) combine the best parts
- 3.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to understand fully
- 4.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) name-calling
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 6.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 12.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 13.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) taking sides at once (b) using a calm voice (c) saying “I feel…” (d) apologising sincerely
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 16.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or hear each side fully? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) hear each side fully
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 19.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) shouting back
- 21.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 23.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 24.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a fight (d) with a winner and loser
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) finding a middle way
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 31.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Let’s hear both sides.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Stop being silly!”
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 33.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) take a vote at once (c) pick a winner fast (d) help them calm down
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or agree on a plan? (a) cool off for a minute (b) agree on a plan
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 37.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 38.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) using a calm voice (c) walking off in anger (d) bringing up old fights
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
Answer key
- calm down
- combine the best parts
- to understand fully
- using a calm voice
- listen to both sides
- saying “I feel…”
- find options
- step 3
- calm down
- focusing on the problem
- step 1
- True
- taking sides at once
- find options
- listening without blame
- walking off in anger
- hear each side fully
- shouting back
- saying “I feel…”
- listening without blame
- False
- step 3
- False
- False
- bringing up old fights
- list possible fixes
- makes it worse
- with an agreed plan
- shouting back
- makes it worse
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- name-calling
- help them calm down
- cool off for a minute
- hear each side fully
- list possible fixes
- False
- using a calm voice
- calm down
- list possible fixes
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