Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or shake hands on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) shake hands on a plan
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) finding a middle way
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 6.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or take a deep breath? (a) list possible fixes (b) take a deep breath
- 8.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) bringing up old fights (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 10.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) saying “I feel…”
- 11.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 12.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) focusing on the problem (d) finding a middle way
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) finding a middle way (c) saying “I feel…” (d) using a calm voice
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or shake hands on a plan? (a) find options (b) shake hands on a plan
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or choose a fix together? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) choose a fix together
- 19.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 21.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) walking off in anger (c) finding a middle way (d) shouting back
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or cool off for a minute? (a) find options (b) cool off for a minute
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 27.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to pick a winner (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to understand fully
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or list possible fixes? (a) listen to both sides (b) list possible fixes
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 40.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
Answer key
- hear each side fully
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- step 1
- step 3
- True
- take a deep breath
- using a calm voice
- brainstorm solutions
- taking sides at once
- False
- name-calling
- makes it worse
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- find options
- brainstorm solutions
- True
- take a deep breath
- step 4
- calm down
- finding a middle way
- cool off for a minute
- helps solve it
- False
- to understand fully
- step 1
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- listen to both sides
- step 3
- makes it worse
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
- let each person speak
- using a calm voice
- shouting back
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