Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) focusing on the problem (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) walking off in anger
- 3.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 5.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 8.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 9.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or list possible fixes? (a) listen to both sides (b) list possible fixes
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 15.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) using a calm voice (d) shouting back
- 21.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 22.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) focusing on the problem (c) name-calling (d) listening without blame
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 26.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 29.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 33.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) bringing up old fights
- 35.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) ignore them (c) take a vote at once (d) pick a winner fast
- 36.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) the leader picks alone
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or brainstorm solutions? (a) cool off for a minute (b) brainstorm solutions
- 38.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) bringing up old fights
- 40.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- makes it worse
- focusing on the problem
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- False
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
- True
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- list possible fixes
- step 3
- listen to both sides
- step 3
- shouting back
- False
- step 3
- step 2
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- True
- name-calling
- step 1
- makes it worse
- False
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- taking sides at once
- True
- step 2
- makes it worse
- find options
- True
- apologising sincerely
- help them calm down
- combine the best parts
- cool off for a minute
- False
- bringing up old fights
- True
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