Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) name-calling (d) spreading gossip
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with an agreed plan (d) with silence
- 10.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 12.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 13.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) take a vote at once (b) help them calm down (c) ignore them (d) pick a winner fast
- 14.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 15.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) apologising sincerely
- 22.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 23.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 30.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or choose a fix together? (a) list possible fixes (b) choose a fix together
- 33.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) using a calm voice
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) focusing on the problem
- 38.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or cool off for a minute? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) cool off for a minute
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
Answer key
- makes it worse
- listening without blame
- step 1
- makes it worse
- step 4
- helps solve it
- True
- helps solve it
- with an agreed plan
- step 1
- list possible fixes
- cool off for a minute
- help them calm down
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- True
- helps solve it
- False
- apologising sincerely
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- apologising sincerely
- focusing on the problem
- True
- helps solve it
- hear each side fully
- step 1
- step 2
- saying “I feel…”
- shouting back
- True
- finding a middle way
- list possible fixes
- bringing up old fights
- step 3
- find options
- helps solve it
- taking sides at once
- False
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
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