Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) bringing up old fights (d) walking off in anger
- 4.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) shouting back (d) using a calm voice
- 5.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 6.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) focusing on the problem
- 8.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) the leader picks alone (d) combine the best parts
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or find options? (a) hear each side fully (b) find options
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) walking off in anger
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 14.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) focusing on the problem
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 18.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) listening without blame
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 20.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a winner and loser (d) with a fight
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) apologising sincerely (c) listening without blame (d) name-calling
- 22.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 23.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 26.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 27.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) using a calm voice (c) name-calling (d) spreading gossip
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 31.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 33.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 34.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 37.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 38.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) finding a middle way (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 40.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
Answer key
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- listening without blame
- shouting back
- False
- True
- name-calling
- combine the best parts
- hear each side fully
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- step 1
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- focusing on the problem
- using a calm voice
- step 3
- spreading gossip
- step 4
- with an agreed plan
- name-calling
- step 2
- to understand fully
- step 1
- calm down
- False
- using a calm voice
- apologising sincerely
- find options
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- shouting back
- step 2
- False
- focusing on the problem
- step 1
- step 4
- step 2
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
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