Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 2.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 4.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) focusing on the problem (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 5.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 6.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 7.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 8.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) name-calling (d) finding a middle way
- 9.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or shake hands on a plan? (a) take a deep breath (b) shake hands on a plan
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 14.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or take a deep breath? (a) find options (b) take a deep breath
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) walking off in anger (c) name-calling (d) bringing up old fights
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 18.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 22.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) name-calling (d) using a calm voice
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or agree on a plan? (a) calm down (b) agree on a plan
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or listen to both sides? (a) choose a fix together (b) listen to both sides
- 29.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 30.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 31.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 33.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) help them calm down (b) pick a winner fast (c) ignore them (d) take a vote at once
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 37.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 38.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) shouting back (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 39.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 40.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
Answer key
- using a calm voice
- makes it worse
- step 4
- taking sides at once
- step 2
- focusing on the problem
- bringing up old fights
- name-calling
- combine the best parts
- take a deep breath
- step 4
- step 2
- helps solve it
- False
- take a deep breath
- listening without blame
- list possible fixes
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- False
- name-calling
- calm down
- step 3
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- find options
- to understand fully
- False
- listen to both sides
- False
- help them calm down
- calm down
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- shouting back
- True
- False
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