Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 2.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) walking off in anger
- 3.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or calm down? (a) list possible fixes (b) calm down
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or find options? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) find options
- 8.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) saying “I feel…”
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or choose a fix together? (a) listen to both sides (b) choose a fix together
- 10.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to find who to blame (c) to understand fully (d) to pick a winner
- 11.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 12.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) help them calm down (d) take a vote at once
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 19.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 20.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) spreading gossip (c) using a calm voice (d) taking sides at once
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) shouting back
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or cool off for a minute? (a) hear each side fully (b) cool off for a minute
- 23.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or listen to both sides? (a) take a deep breath (b) listen to both sides
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or listen to both sides? (a) choose a fix together (b) listen to both sides
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) finding a middle way (d) bringing up old fights
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) bringing up old fights (b) using a calm voice (c) finding a middle way (d) saying “I feel…”
- 29.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) shouting back (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 31.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 32.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or find options? (a) choose a fix together (b) find options
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) shouting back (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 40.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) combine the best parts (c) the leader picks alone (d) use the louder one’s
Answer key
- hear each side fully
- walking off in anger
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- let each person speak
- calm down
- find options
- spreading gossip
- listen to both sides
- to understand fully
- with an agreed plan
- help them calm down
- helps solve it
- list possible fixes
- step 3
- apologising sincerely
- calm down
- makes it worse
- True
- using a calm voice
- shouting back
- cool off for a minute
- False
- take a deep breath
- listen to both sides
- finding a middle way
- listen to both sides
- bringing up old fights
- False
- focusing on the problem
- focusing on the problem
- let each person speak
- makes it worse
- step 2
- find options
- helps solve it
- False
- helps solve it
- using a calm voice
- combine the best parts
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