Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 2.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or listen to both sides? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) listen to both sides
- 3.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a winner and loser
- 4.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 7.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or listen to both sides? (a) choose a fix together (b) listen to both sides
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 9.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) apologising sincerely
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 11.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or hear each side fully? (a) find options (b) hear each side fully
- 15.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) finding a middle way (c) listening without blame (d) shouting back
- 17.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “You are always wrong.” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Stop being silly!” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 18.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 20.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 23.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) pick a winner fast (c) take a vote at once (d) help them calm down
- 24.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) using a calm voice (d) walking off in anger
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 27.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 28.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) apologising sincerely (c) finding a middle way (d) walking off in anger
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) saying “I feel…” (d) name-calling
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) name-calling (c) spreading gossip (d) apologising sincerely
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 32.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 34.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 35.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 36.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 37.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or choose a fix together? (a) listen to both sides (b) choose a fix together
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) shouting back (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
Answer key
- False
- listen to both sides
- with an agreed plan
- helps solve it
- find options
- step 3
- listen to both sides
- step 3
- apologising sincerely
- find options
- saying “I feel…”
- step 2
- step 1
- hear each side fully
- False
- shouting back
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- False
- spreading gossip
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- hear each side fully
- help them calm down
- walking off in anger
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- to understand fully
- walking off in anger
- name-calling
- apologising sincerely
- take a deep breath
- step 1
- list possible fixes
- True
- False
- name-calling
- True
- listen to both sides
- makes it worse
- shouting back
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