Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) agree on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 4.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) using a calm voice (c) walking off in anger (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a fight (b) with silence (c) with an agreed plan (d) with a winner and loser
- 7.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) combine the best parts (c) use the louder one’s (d) scrap the project
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) spreading gossip
- 10.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 11.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) bringing up old fights
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 14.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) name-calling
- 15.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) finding a middle way (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 18.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 20.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) focusing on the problem (c) listening without blame (d) bringing up old fights
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) shouting back (c) using a calm voice (d) apologising sincerely
- 22.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 25.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or let each person speak? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) let each person speak
- 28.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) name-calling
- 30.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 31.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 32.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) focusing on the problem (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 34.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 35.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 36.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or let each person speak? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) let each person speak
- 40.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) finding a middle way (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
Answer key
- False
- saying “I feel…”
- take a deep breath
- calm down
- walking off in anger
- with an agreed plan
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- listening without blame
- helps solve it
- False
- bringing up old fights
- step 4
- name-calling
- take a deep breath
- taking sides at once
- step 3
- True
- step 4
- bringing up old fights
- shouting back
- False
- helps solve it
- step 2
- False
- step 1
- let each person speak
- True
- name-calling
- step 1
- step 3
- taking sides at once
- helps solve it
- False
- listening without blame
- step 2
- hear each side fully
- list possible fixes
- let each person speak
- shouting back
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