Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) bringing up old fights (c) apologising sincerely (d) walking off in anger
- 2.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) apologising sincerely (c) saying “I feel…” (d) walking off in anger
- 3.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or listen to both sides? (a) calm down (b) listen to both sides
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or shake hands on a plan? (a) listen to both sides (b) shake hands on a plan
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or list possible fixes? (a) listen to both sides (b) list possible fixes
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 11.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or find options? (a) listen to both sides (b) find options
- 12.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with silence (c) with a fight (d) with an agreed plan
- 13.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 15.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) shouting back
- 18.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 19.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) the leader picks alone (b) use the louder one’s (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) name-calling (c) walking off in anger (d) taking sides at once
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 26.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 27.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 29.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 31.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to pick a winner (c) to find who to blame (d) to waste time
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 34.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or take a deep breath? (a) hear each side fully (b) take a deep breath
- 35.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or shake hands on a plan? (a) calm down (b) shake hands on a plan
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or cool off for a minute? (a) agree on a plan (b) cool off for a minute
- 39.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 40.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
Answer key
- apologising sincerely
- walking off in anger
- calm down
- step 4
- listen to both sides
- listen to both sides
- step 1
- step 3
- find options
- calm down
- listen to both sides
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- step 1
- False
- makes it worse
- saying “I feel…”
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- combine the best parts
- listen to both sides
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- False
- step 1
- spreading gossip
- True
- step 4
- True
- helps solve it
- to understand fully
- makes it worse
- find options
- take a deep breath
- step 3
- helps solve it
- calm down
- cool off for a minute
- step 4
- step 2
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