Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) bringing up old fights (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 2.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 3.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) walking off in anger
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 5.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Let’s hear both sides.” (b) “Stop being silly!” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 8.True or false: “spreading gossip” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or calm down? (a) hear each side fully (b) calm down
- 11.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 12.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: finding a middle way? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 13.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) listening without blame (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 14.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) ignore them
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 17.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 18.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 19.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to waste time (b) to pick a winner (c) to understand fully (d) to find who to blame
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) finding a middle way (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 21.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or brainstorm solutions? (a) agree on a plan (b) brainstorm solutions
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) spreading gossip
- 23.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a fight (d) with silence
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 25.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 26.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) finding a middle way (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 27.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 28.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 29.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or list possible fixes? (a) take a deep breath (b) list possible fixes
- 31.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) saying “I feel…” (c) focusing on the problem (d) apologising sincerely
- 36.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 37.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 39.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
- 40.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- saying “I feel…”
- step 1
- listening without blame
- step 3
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- step 2
- False
- brainstorm solutions
- calm down
- False
- helps solve it
- bringing up old fights
- help them calm down
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- step 3
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
- name-calling
- brainstorm solutions
- focusing on the problem
- with an agreed plan
- helps solve it
- step 4
- finding a middle way
- step 4
- True
- False
- take a deep breath
- apologising sincerely
- makes it worse
- list possible fixes
- step 1
- taking sides at once
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- find options
- listen to both sides
- True
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