Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) spreading gossip (b) using a calm voice (c) bringing up old fights (d) taking sides at once
- 2.True or false: “spreading gossip” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 5.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) finding a middle way (c) apologising sincerely (d) saying “I feel…”
- 6.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 7.True or false: “focusing on the problem” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 9.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 10.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to understand fully (b) to find who to blame (c) to waste time (d) to pick a winner
- 11.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 12.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) walking off in anger (c) name-calling (d) spreading gossip
- 13.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) taking sides at once (d) finding a middle way
- 14.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or list possible fixes? (a) let each person speak (b) list possible fixes
- 15.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 2 (b) step 3 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 17.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) apologising sincerely (d) spreading gossip
- 18.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
- 20.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) take a vote at once (c) help them calm down (d) ignore them
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 22.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with a winner and loser (b) with a fight (c) with silence (d) with an agreed plan
- 23.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) focusing on the problem (b) apologising sincerely (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: apologising sincerely? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 27.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or let each person speak? (a) list possible fixes (b) let each person speak
- 29.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 30.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or brainstorm solutions? (a) let each person speak (b) brainstorm solutions
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) name-calling (d) apologising sincerely
- 33.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 34.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 35.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or take a deep breath? (a) list possible fixes (b) take a deep breath
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or let each person speak? (a) agree on a plan (b) let each person speak
- 39.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 40.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “You are always wrong.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
Answer key
- using a calm voice
- True
- step 4
- step 2
- walking off in anger
- step 1
- True
- step 2
- step 4
- to understand fully
- True
- saying “I feel…”
- taking sides at once
- let each person speak
- step 3
- step 1
- apologising sincerely
- False
- cool off for a minute
- help them calm down
- helps solve it
- with an agreed plan
- bringing up old fights
- helps solve it
- helps solve it
- step 4
- taking sides at once
- let each person speak
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- let each person speak
- name-calling
- makes it worse
- True
- True
- take a deep breath
- list possible fixes
- let each person speak
- focusing on the problem
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
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