Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) using a calm voice
- 2.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 3.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 4.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) agree on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 7.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 8.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 9.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or agree on a plan? (a) find options (b) agree on a plan
- 11.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or shake hands on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) shake hands on a plan
- 14.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) bringing up old fights (d) listening without blame
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 16.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 17.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 18.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 19.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 20.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 4 (b) step 3 (c) step 1 (d) step 2
- 21.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) bringing up old fights (c) taking sides at once (d) apologising sincerely
- 22.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or list possible fixes? (a) calm down (b) list possible fixes
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) taking sides at once
- 24.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) using a calm voice (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 25.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 26.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) scrap the project (c) combine the best parts (d) the leader picks alone
- 27.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: taking sides at once? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 28.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) saying “I feel…” (c) using a calm voice (d) focusing on the problem
- 29.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: brainstorm solutions? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 30.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) listening without blame (b) focusing on the problem (c) using a calm voice (d) bringing up old fights
- 32.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or choose a fix together? (a) listen to both sides (b) choose a fix together
- 34.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) walking off in anger (c) finding a middle way (d) taking sides at once
- 35.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: listening without blame? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 36.True or false: “shouting back” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 38.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) finding a middle way (c) walking off in anger (d) using a calm voice
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or listen to both sides? (a) cool off for a minute (b) listen to both sides
Answer key
- taking sides at once
- True
- True
- False
- hear each side fully
- helps solve it
- False
- makes it worse
- False
- find options
- True
- step 1
- list possible fixes
- listening without blame
- finding a middle way
- makes it worse
- using a calm voice
- False
- step 4
- step 3
- apologising sincerely
- calm down
- taking sides at once
- shouting back
- help them calm down
- combine the best parts
- makes it worse
- shouting back
- step 3
- True
- bringing up old fights
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- finding a middle way
- helps solve it
- True
- calm down
- False
- walking off in anger
- cool off for a minute
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