Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) shouting back (c) finding a middle way (d) name-calling
- 2.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: listen to both sides? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 4 (d) step 1
- 5.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or calm down? (a) choose a fix together (b) calm down
- 6.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 8.👂 Why listen to both sides in a conflict? (a) to find who to blame (b) to waste time (c) to pick a winner (d) to understand fully
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: take a deep breath or list possible fixes? (a) take a deep breath (b) list possible fixes
- 10.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) apologising sincerely (d) using a calm voice
- 11.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) spreading gossip (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 12.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 13.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 14.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) focusing on the problem (d) spreading gossip
- 15.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) walking off in anger (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) taking sides at once
- 17.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 18.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or choose a fix together? (a) find options (b) choose a fix together
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) name-calling (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) bringing up old fights
- 22.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: name-calling? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 23.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 24.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or calm down? (a) find options (b) calm down
- 28.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) shouting back (b) saying “I feel…” (c) finding a middle way (d) listening without blame
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or listen to both sides? (a) list possible fixes (b) listen to both sides
- 31.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) listening without blame (c) shouting back (d) name-calling
- 33.True or false: “name-calling” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 34.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) using a calm voice (b) walking off in anger (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or let each person speak? (a) cool off for a minute (b) let each person speak
- 36.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or take a deep breath? (a) agree on a plan (b) take a deep breath
- 38.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or listen to both sides? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) listen to both sides
Answer key
- finding a middle way
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 1
- step 2
- calm down
- makes it worse
- makes it worse
- to understand fully
- take a deep breath
- bringing up old fights
- saying “I feel…”
- step 4
- take a deep breath
- focusing on the problem
- listening without blame
- saying “I feel…”
- helps solve it
- False
- find options
- find options
- using a calm voice
- makes it worse
- False
- step 3
- calm down
- take a deep breath
- calm down
- makes it worse
- shouting back
- listen to both sides
- False
- listening without blame
- True
- using a calm voice
- cool off for a minute
- False
- take a deep breath
- False
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
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