Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with an agreed plan (c) with a winner and loser (d) with a fight
- 2.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 3.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 3
- 4.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) walking off in anger (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 5.True or false: “shouting back” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 6.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or let each person speak? (a) calm down (b) let each person speak
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 8.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) listening without blame (d) using a calm voice
- 9.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or listen to both sides? (a) find options (b) listen to both sides
- 10.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) pick a winner fast (b) help them calm down (c) take a vote at once (d) ignore them
- 11.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) spreading gossip (b) listening without blame (c) finding a middle way (d) apologising sincerely
- 12.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) apologising sincerely (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 13.True or false: “apologising sincerely” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: agree on a plan? (a) step 1 (b) step 3 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) shouting back (d) focusing on the problem
- 16.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) saying “I feel…”
- 17.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or hear each side fully? (a) calm down (b) hear each side fully
- 18.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 19.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: calm down or choose a fix together? (a) calm down (b) choose a fix together
- 20.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or list possible fixes? (a) choose a fix together (b) list possible fixes
- 21.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 22.True or false: “finding a middle way” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) finding a middle way (c) taking sides at once (d) spreading gossip
- 24.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or hear each side fully? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) hear each side fully
- 25.True or false: “focusing on the problem” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 26.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or let each person speak? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) let each person speak
- 27.True or false: “using a calm voice” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 28.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 29.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) focusing on the problem (d) saying “I feel…”
- 30.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) bringing up old fights (c) listening without blame (d) saying “I feel…”
- 31.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: hear each side fully or agree on a plan? (a) hear each side fully (b) agree on a plan
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) saying “I feel…” (c) listening without blame (d) bringing up old fights
- 33.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 34.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: cool off for a minute? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or calm down? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) calm down
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or calm down? (a) listen to both sides (b) calm down
- 38.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 39.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) shouting back (b) bringing up old fights (c) focusing on the problem (d) taking sides at once
- 40.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) use the louder one’s (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) scrap the project
Answer key
- with an agreed plan
- True
- step 4
- using a calm voice
- False
- calm down
- helps solve it
- name-calling
- listen to both sides
- help them calm down
- spreading gossip
- shouting back
- False
- step 4
- shouting back
- saying “I feel…”
- calm down
- step 2
- calm down
- list possible fixes
- helps solve it
- False
- finding a middle way
- hear each side fully
- False
- let each person speak
- False
- True
- walking off in anger
- bringing up old fights
- hear each side fully
- bringing up old fights
- False
- step 1
- cool off for a minute
- calm down
- calm down
- False
- focusing on the problem
- combine the best parts
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