Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 1 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 4
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) apologising sincerely (b) name-calling (c) spreading gossip (d) walking off in anger
- 3.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “You are always wrong.” (c) “I don’t care.” (d) “Let’s hear both sides.”
- 4.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: let each person speak? (a) step 3 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 1
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) help them calm down (c) pick a winner fast (d) take a vote at once
- 7.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 1 (b) step 4 (c) step 2 (d) step 3
- 8.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 9.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 10.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: listen to both sides or brainstorm solutions? (a) listen to both sides (b) brainstorm solutions
- 11.True or false: “finding a middle way” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 12.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) shouting back (c) listening without blame (d) taking sides at once
- 13.True or false: “bringing up old fights” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 14.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 15.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 16.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: choose a fix together? (a) step 2 (b) step 4 (c) step 1 (d) step 3
- 17.True or false: “using a calm voice” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 18.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: choose a fix together or take a deep breath? (a) choose a fix together (b) take a deep breath
- 19.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) using a calm voice (c) shouting back (d) listening without blame
- 20.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) spreading gossip (b) taking sides at once (c) shouting back (d) apologising sincerely
- 21.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) apologising sincerely (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) focusing on the problem
- 22.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) using a calm voice (c) taking sides at once (d) name-calling
- 23.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: find options? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 24.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 25.True or false: “taking sides at once” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 26.True or false: “listening without blame” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 27.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) taking sides at once (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 28.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or find options? (a) let each person speak (b) find options
- 29.True or false: “name-calling” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 30.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) bringing up old fights (b) taking sides at once (c) focusing on the problem (d) shouting back
- 31.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) bringing up old fights (b) finding a middle way (c) spreading gossip (d) name-calling
- 32.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) walking off in anger (b) taking sides at once (c) saying “I feel…” (d) shouting back
- 33.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: find options or let each person speak? (a) find options (b) let each person speak
- 34.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) scrap the project (b) the leader picks alone (c) combine the best parts (d) use the louder one’s
- 35.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) finding a middle way (c) focusing on the problem (d) taking sides at once
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or agree on a plan? (a) list possible fixes (b) agree on a plan
- 37.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or choose a fix together? (a) cool off for a minute (b) choose a fix together
- 38.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: cool off for a minute or hear each side fully? (a) cool off for a minute (b) hear each side fully
- 39.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: bringing up old fights? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 40.True or false: “bringing up old fights” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
Answer key
- step 2
- apologising sincerely
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- step 2
- helps solve it
- help them calm down
- step 1
- step 4
- makes it worse
- listen to both sides
- True
- listening without blame
- False
- False
- helps solve it
- step 4
- True
- take a deep breath
- shouting back
- apologising sincerely
- taking sides at once
- using a calm voice
- step 3
- True
- False
- False
- using a calm voice
- let each person speak
- False
- focusing on the problem
- finding a middle way
- saying “I feel…”
- let each person speak
- combine the best parts
- taking sides at once
- list possible fixes
- cool off for a minute
- cool off for a minute
- makes it worse
- True
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