Leadership Skills Worksheet: Conflict Resolution
Leader's tip (Calm, listen, options, agree): The four steps in order: calm down → listen to both sides → find options → agree on a plan. Helps: a calm voice, saying “I feel…”, listening without blame, finding a middle way, apologising sincerely. Makes it worse: shouting back, taking sides at once, name-calling, bringing up old fights, spreading gossip.
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- 1.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) name-calling (b) focusing on the problem (c) spreading gossip (d) shouting back
- 2.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) finding a middle way (b) spreading gossip (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 3.True or false: “listening without blame” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 4.✅ How does solving a conflict end? (a) with silence (b) with a fight (c) with a winner and loser (d) with an agreed plan
- 5.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: shouting back? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 6.🗣️ Which line helps calm a conflict? (a) “Stop being silly!” (b) “I don’t care.” (c) “Let’s hear both sides.” (d) “You are always wrong.”
- 7.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: using a calm voice? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 8.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: shake hands on a plan or calm down? (a) shake hands on a plan (b) calm down
- 9.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) focusing on the problem (b) listening without blame (c) spreading gossip (d) using a calm voice
- 10.🤝 Two members want different poster designs. Which is a fair option? (a) combine the best parts (b) use the louder one’s (c) scrap the project (d) the leader picks alone
- 11.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: take a deep breath? (a) step 4 (b) step 2 (c) step 3 (d) step 1
- 12.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) walking off in anger (b) listening without blame (c) name-calling (d) taking sides at once
- 13.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: calm down? (a) step 4 (b) step 1 (c) step 3 (d) step 2
- 14.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: list possible fixes? (a) step 3 (b) step 2 (c) step 1 (d) step 4
- 15.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) saying “I feel…” (b) name-calling (c) shouting back (d) walking off in anger
- 16.True or false: “walking off in anger” helps solve a conflict. (a) False (b) True
- 17.True or false: “taking sides at once” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 18.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) bringing up old fights (d) using a calm voice
- 19.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: saying “I feel…”? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 20.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 21.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) apologising sincerely (b) focusing on the problem (c) bringing up old fights (d) saying “I feel…”
- 22.True or false: “saying “I feel…”” makes a conflict worse. (a) True (b) False
- 23.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: focusing on the problem? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 24.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: walking off in anger? (a) makes it worse (b) helps solve it
- 25.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: brainstorm solutions or agree on a plan? (a) brainstorm solutions (b) agree on a plan
- 26.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: shake hands on a plan? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 2 (d) step 4
- 27.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: list possible fixes or hear each side fully? (a) list possible fixes (b) hear each side fully
- 28.🕊️ Which conflict-solving step is this: hear each side fully? (a) step 3 (b) step 1 (c) step 4 (d) step 2
- 29.Which of these makes a conflict worse? (a) listening without blame (b) bringing up old fights (c) using a calm voice (d) finding a middle way
- 30.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or cool off for a minute? (a) let each person speak (b) cool off for a minute
- 31.🔍 Which is the odd one out? (a) using a calm voice (b) saying “I feel…” (c) taking sides at once (d) listening without blame
- 32.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) shouting back (b) spreading gossip (c) taking sides at once (d) using a calm voice
- 33.🧩 Two teammates are arguing loudly over who presents. What is the first step? (a) ignore them (b) take a vote at once (c) help them calm down (d) pick a winner fast
- 34.True or false: “walking off in anger” makes a conflict worse. (a) False (b) True
- 35.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or list possible fixes? (a) agree on a plan (b) list possible fixes
- 36.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: agree on a plan or find options? (a) agree on a plan (b) find options
- 37.Which of these helps solve a conflict? (a) taking sides at once (b) name-calling (c) saying “I feel…” (d) spreading gossip
- 38.🕊️ Does this help solve a conflict or make it worse: spreading gossip? (a) helps solve it (b) makes it worse
- 39.True or false: “apologising sincerely” helps solve a conflict. (a) True (b) False
- 40.🕊️ When solving a conflict, which comes first: let each person speak or shake hands on a plan? (a) let each person speak (b) shake hands on a plan
Answer key
- focusing on the problem
- finding a middle way
- True
- with an agreed plan
- makes it worse
- “Let’s hear both sides.”
- helps solve it
- calm down
- spreading gossip
- combine the best parts
- step 1
- listening without blame
- step 1
- step 3
- saying “I feel…”
- False
- True
- using a calm voice
- helps solve it
- True
- bringing up old fights
- False
- helps solve it
- makes it worse
- brainstorm solutions
- step 4
- hear each side fully
- step 2
- bringing up old fights
- cool off for a minute
- taking sides at once
- using a calm voice
- help them calm down
- True
- list possible fixes
- find options
- saying “I feel…”
- makes it worse
- True
- let each person speak
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